So maybe you are wondering how Huggles 'n' Snuggles came about.
I am known by most as Dem or Demi. As far back as 2014 I remember seriously considering setting up a Cuddle Agency. I wrote an article about it back then (included below) and although I would NEVER have considered paying for any form of sexual service I WOULD have gladly paid for uncomplicated Cuddles.
There are so many reasons a person may be missing being held. It isn't just the obvious like a break up or a death of a loved one. People work away, are posted abroad with the armed forces or have simply lost that connection in the relationship they are in but do not want to threaten what remains in any way. That or you have fallen in love with someone who just can't or won't hug you. Sometimes it is because someone has been sick, depressed, lonely or had bad news and they just need the time to get their head together with no pressure before telling their friends and loved ones. Sometimes it is just an escape from the busy lives we lead and sometimes we just need a physical sign of acceptance as a decent human being.
Getting together with a much loved colleages we are very happy to now provide the service I was craving.
Remember we love cuddles as much as you do. Come see us soon Dem xx
ORIGINAL ARTICLE WRITTEN IN 2014
Would I pay for sex? NO... Would I pay for cuddles? Quite possibly!!!
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I once thought of setting up a cuddle/hug agency haha.
What I miss most about being in a relationship isn't the sex it's the cuddles and gentle attention of after play without needing the play or sex first. Even in some of my relationships it was the cuddles and stroking I missed most.
It would be so nice to be able to just call someone up and say hey do you want to just hold me for an hour or two... There would be no complications, no kissing, lol except for the top of your head because I personally love that.
Some days you just want to crawl into someone's arms and lay with your head on their chest listening to the sound of their heartbeat. Some days you want to lay their head on your chest and stroke their hair while they rest there. I get as much satisfaction out of giving as receiving when it comes to cuddles.
Would I have paid for cuddles when I was married hell yes lol. Would I now? Definitely!
Hugs I get a plenty, I seem to be the kind of girl who can inspire hugs most places I go and I know some amazing huggers lol. ;-D probably because I offer up hugs far too freely but hey why not both people feel good from a hug. Proper hugs being those that last more than 30 seconds as that is when the feel good endorphins kick in someone told me once. I'll rarely let you go before I get that endorphin kick.
But a cuddle is different at least for me, a vulnerability and a security that while you are in someone's arms nothing can happen to you. Things don't have to be bad to enjoy a cuddle and I don't think it's a return to childhood thing for me at least. I think it is more an acceptance and a nurturing thing.
Some days you want a relationship others you just want to be held and accepted for who you are.
I miss cuddles on tap and am not ashamed to admit it ;-D lol maybe I should rethink it as an enterprise idea!!!
What should I call it lol... The Cuddle Bar? Cuddles R Us? Cuddles not Cumming?
Suggestions more than welcome ;-D
